We have (finally) decided on a reception location. I love this place! It's a working goat farm that also hosts weddings:

http://eventsatthefarm.com/
We will also get a year of web hosting for free, so it is likely that superlong URL
http://www.mywedding.com/erinandjoshuaswedding/index.html will be moving in the near future.
The ceremony will be about 25 minutes away in Shenandoah National Park. Carpooling is
definitely encouraged, since there is a park entrance fee.
We have added a list of nearby accommodations to the wedding website, from campgrounds to cabins to luxury suites. Enjoy!